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Singles have the advantage of having no one to tell them what to do and no one to mess up their plan. Sounds great, doesn't it? However, they also have the disadvantage of not having built-in accountability. Because of this, things can spiral out of control pretty quickly. Kiplinger's magazine found that 30% of people filing bankruptcy alone are women and 26% are men. This is a big deal!
A recent poll from the Pew Research Center found that about 80% of 18- to 25-year-olds in this country see getting rich as a top life goal. Here's a news flash for you: you're not going to get rich if you think debt is a tool to make you rich! It is vital that single people practice common sense money-management skills just as much as a married couple.
Managed Money Works Harder
If you think you don't make enough money for budgeting to make a difference, think again! When you write down what you're going to do with money (no matter how much you have), you're making it and you behave. You are still free to do what you want just do it on purpose. Since you don't have an automatic accountability partner, you must ask yourself, "Am I behaving in order to accomplish my goals?" Being broke because you don't have a game plan is definitely not fun.
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Find a money mentor.
Find someone with a little gray hair who has proven to be wise with money. Ask lots of questions. Give this person permission to hold you accountable to your budget and check with them before making large purchases. They need to love you enough to gently hurt your feelings for your own good. Don't let overconfidence creep in because it can lead to never seeking anyone's input. Remember, even the Lone Ranger needed Tonto.
Escape from Impulsive Buying
For single parents in particular, impulsive streaks can stem less from immaturity than from desperation and exhaustion. Say you've had an unbelievably hard week, and by Friday you don't care if the ATM withdrawal of $20 for a fast-food dinner causes you to bounce 10 checks. You have one option as a single parent with limited money and not enough hours in a day–plan in advance! You are imprisoned by some circumstances you want to be free of and that takes a plan for a prison break.
Those of you with no kids probably have a different kind of impulsive streak. How many times a week do you eat out? Do you go shopping at the mall every weekend? How much is your car payment? If you've continued to confuse immaturity or "I don't care" impulsiveness with true freedom, now is the time to get on the right track.
Remember that the Baby Steps transcend your marital status, life goals, and age. Putting these steps into practice will help you experience more and more freedom. Just like anyone else, if you make smart choices now and avoid stupid ones, you'll reap the benefits of wise decisions over time.